Christmas is over now. All the hub bub and hoopla behind us.
The end is near. The end of the year that is.
Has it been a good year or a bad year?
You will need to answer that for yourself.
But the buzz is all over social media. Some saying I can’t wait for it to be over. Others planning ahead with hope or determination hearts singing we’ve only just begun.
Where do you land?
When 2016 arrived many were hopeful. People quickly attached the word sweet to it.
I know I did.
It felt like it should be magical. Sweet 2016
January removed my thoughts of magical with three deaths. One was a suicide. It was awful. March brought another death of someone I knew. A young man who died too soon. My heart broke. My mother in law has been dying all year.
No, 2016 had no magic of its own.
But did that mean the entire year was lost?
It depends on what you decide.
How do you feel about it?
For many, it has been full of much pain and loss. Personally and also globally. Many celebrities died. There were shootings, riots, disasters, accidents and the painful strife of the United States presidential election. To name just a few.
For many others, it might have been their best year yet. Perhaps they got married, bought a house, had a baby, received a promotion, or started a new job or career path.
Our lives are full of events. Some we have control over and others we do not. We tend to be happier when we have control.
But, when things happen outside our control it tends to rock our world. Things like death, job loss, divorce, storms, and disasters. They strike at our security, there is a sense of violation.
How we process the events of the year depends on how we look at it.
How do you see it?
What is your immediate response to the question, how did 2016 treat you?
How we see what has happened effects everything.
Where is our focus? What is our attitude?
Do we see the year as our enemy, blaming it for negative events and/or decisions?
Or do we see it as it is, a sequence of events we have the power to respond to?
We can go through wonderful things with a negative attitude and it can taint the entire thing. The good thing somehow becomes not good enough.
When our experience falls short of our expectation we have a choice. We can adapt or we can sulk.
When we go through negative, or even tragic things and employ a positive attitude to process them it can turn it around. It doesn’t remove the pain, it simply makes use of it. We can learn. We can use it as fertilizer to grow.
When we make use of our failures or traumas we can make even our worst year constructive or even beneficial.
No year is perfect. There is no magical number. To think one exists sets us up for failure.
Things happen. Both good and bad, happy and sad.
It is what we do with the things that happen in our lives that determine where we go from here.
How are you going to approach 2017?
How you choose to see this current year will bleed into next year.
January 1st is just the date on the calendar following December 31st.
One day, one night and it becomes the next day.
That day alone will not make or break your year.
Your attitude and perspective will.
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Choose the attitude of hopeful expectation, add some plans and make it a good year.
Because a good year is a year you made it through.
A year you learned.
A year you overcame some things.
A year you found things to enjoy no matter if it came easy or it came hard.
As 2016 arrived I heard a prophecy it was going to be The Great Year. At first, that sounded so vague to me. Convenient even. Then I heard the elaboration on it to include that it would be The Great Year of what we were believing for. I’m thankful I latched onto that, made a list of things I wanted to increase in my life and declared them daily.
At the close of this year, I see that my experience with 2016 was indeed great but not how I thought.
Everything was not perfect but it was a year that was busting at the seams full – which can be one definition of great – large.
I went through my calendar taking stock of my year. (You should totally do this too)
What had I done? Where had I gone? Who had I spent time with? What did I start? What did I finish?
I was amazed at how full my year has been.
I started blogging. I spent a lot of quality time with family and friends. I wrote a short story processing the pain in dealing with a loved one with Alzheimer’s (A Bird Named Payn). I have a new grandbaby! I joined many writing communities and groups. I discovered Jeff Goins and joined Tribe Writers (which has been positively life changing). I joined James Patterson’s book launch team. I launched my professional writer Facebook Page – like and follow me!
And that is just a few things.
I am adopting the attitude of we’ve only just begun and making some goals.
In the past this was hard. I did them wrong. I was vague and I was harsh on myself so I stopped.
But I have learned how to do it differently and so I am going to start again.
I’m going to be bold and share.
My incomplete list of Goals for 2017:
Write and publish my manifesto before the end of January.
Release my book Emerging With Wings on Kindle by May 7th.
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Feel free to hold me accountable.
2017 will be what you make it. How you approach it is your choice.
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- Do you make goals?
- How good are you at them?
- What is a goal you have for 2017?
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