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Danielle suffered numerous childhood traumas leaving her filled with self-hatred, expectation of rejection, no faith in the love of God, and numerous physical ailments.

She got well and empowers others to take ownership of their wellness!

  • Emotional
  • Mental
  • Spiritual
  • Physical
  • Personal
  • Relational
  • Professional.

Danielle cares deeply for those she serves, tailors her message to their unique needs, and delivers the ah-ha moments needed to go forward and thrive.

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Workshops for Workplace Wellness

Mental Health as a Result of Trauma Workshop
Emotional Skills for Turbulent Times Workshop
Relationship Repair Starts with YOU workshop

Trauma is one of the 3 causes of mental health issues.

To effectively deal with mental health issues we need a Trauma-Informed S.E.L.F.©

The Trauma-Informed S.E.L.F.©

  • SEE – The problem
  • EXPOSE – The cause
  • LOVE – The response
  • FREE – The action

Mental Health as a Result of Trauma is an interactive 90-minute workshop that goes through the S.E.L.F. like this:

  • SEE – identifying what trauma is and the widespread impact of it.
  • EXPOSE – how trauma happens and how it manifests.
  • Trauma assessment – identify trauma responses for unresolved trauma.
  • LOVE – respond with compassion / safely seen, heard, empowered.
  • FREE – taking action, self-care, mind management, and tools.

No one calms down by command and life dishes out 7 different kinds of chaos.

To effectively deal with the chaos of life we need a Calming S.E.L.F.©

The Emotional Skills S.E.L.F.©

  • SEE – what’s going on
  • EXPOSE – chaos and effects
  • LOVE – comfort and courage
  • FREE – embrace peace

Emotional Skills for Turbulent Times is an interactive 90-minute workshop that goes through the S.E.L.F. like this:

  • SEE – calm / not calm, where and why.
  • EXPOSE – the 7 different kinds of chaos, how they differ and manifest.
  • LOVE – how love empowers emotionally and physically
  • FREE – regain control, make room for peace in mind, emotions, and body.

Healthy relationships are built with love, and it starts with loving yourself.

To effectively repair relationships in life it starts with Loving YourS.E.L.F.©

The Repairing Relationships S.E.L.F.©

  • SEE – why self-love
  • EXPOSE – why it’s missing
  • LOVE – 2 kinds
  • FREE – permission

Repairing Relationships Starts with YOU is an interactive 90-minute workshop that goes through the S.E.L.F. like this:

  • SEE – why self-love, what it looks like, self-love assessment.
  • EXPOSE – the need for self-love, maturity, what went wrong.
  • LOVE – conditional love / unconditional love, behavior follows belief.
  • FREE – addressing the issues, reconstructing belief based on truth.
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About Danielle

Danielle is “That Lady on the Internet Who Loves You”

A Relationship Repair Specialist. Founder of 4F Media, and creator of the S.E.L.F.© process for life transformation. Trauma Recovery & Self-Love Coach. 5X Author.

Workplace Wellness Workshops. Keynote & Conference Speaking.

Danielle is different: Your agenda is her agenda, and she’s a simplifier. She takes the complex ideas that make people’s eyes glaze over and makes them understandable. Big words and industry jargon are translated into everyday terminology.

Her energy, authenticity and humor help others feel validated and empowered to embrace the change from survive to thrive.

Married to Michael since 1980, also a mom, sister, and Mima.

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Confidence & Calm Behind the Chair at Bell Amore Salon

Speaker in Shelby Township Michigan

BA Salon and Collective 

Naomi Trotto invited Danielle into her salon to speak to her team, provide tools for dealing with stress, and support team culture.

Delivering: Confidence and Calm Behind The Chair

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Keynote Speaker In Utica Michigan

Stephen Ministry Network of Southeast Michigan Annual Fall Conference. Trinity Lutheran Church in Utica hosted the event.

Sheila Manning, chairwoman for Stephen Ministry Network of SE MI reached out to Danielle to speak at their annual conference. She also invited her into the planning and preparation process. 

Keynote address: Mental Health As A Result Of Trauma

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Keynote Speaker In Kendallville Indiana

Vicki Napier invited Danielle to speak at her conference, Rise Up Daughters of the King. A video sample of this Keynote is found at the top of this page.

Keynote address: Rise Up and Emerge Free (Redemption So Deep)

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Speaker in Farmington Hills Michigan

Women of Excellence with a Purpose founded by Rhonda Czarnik invited Danielle to be the Keynote speaker at her ladies event held at Harvest International Ministries. A video sample of this Keynote is found at the top of this page.

Topic delivered: Emerging Free

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Keynote Speaker in Rochester Michigan

Rochester Writers founded by Michael Dwyer invited Danielle to deliver the keynote speech at their 15th annual writers conference held at Oakland University. A video sample of this Keynote is found at the top of this page.

Keynote address: Dare To Believe (Behavior Follows Belief)

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Speaker in Mansfield Ohio

Igniting Souls founded by Kary Oberbrunner invited Danielle to speak at their Fire Ring Mastermind held at the Ohio Reformatory aka Shawshank prison.

Topic delivered: Owning Who You Are

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Testimonials

You could have heard a pin drop.. Danielle Captivated the audience within a matter of 2 minutes. Danielle spoke from the truth she lived. The truth so many others have lived but yet to be free from. Danielle gave such outstanding analogies. Her smile along with the love you could feel because you matter was definitely in the room. I’m so honored be have been in the presence on a person whom chose to rise up and stand in the gap for others. I received ample amount of positive feedback from those who had attended. I definitely will have Danielle back for another conference.
Vicki Napier
Vickie Napier
Danielle was a keynote speaker at our recent conference. Her message regarding mental health issues resulting from trauma was very informative. Her own experience with this issue enabled her to present her workshop in a very meaningful, articulate way. Our audience had an overwhelming positive response to her program. I highly recommend her as a speaker and coach.
Sheila Manning Chairwoman of Stephen Ministry Network
Sheila ManningChairwoman Stephen Ministry Network
Danielle is a passionate speaker who brings life into the room. The insurmountable challenges that she has overcome couple with the joy of life creates an atmosphere of hope and expectancy for the listeners. Her story encourages others not to give up on theirs! I highly recommend Danielle for your organization.
Tony Colson
Tony ColsonGreatness Makers
It was a privilege to present next to Danielle at the Stephen Ministry Network of SE Michigan to 150 Stephen Ministers. She presented her model of promoting self-care and healing from trauma. Her presentation was engaging and informative.
Chad Wright Assoc. Pastor Trinity Lutheran
Pastor Chad WrightAssoc. Pastor Christian Care & Counseling - Trinity Lutheran Church
I had the absolute pleasure of having Danielle visit my salon to speak to the team, and her insights were nothing short of enlightening. During our meeting, she spoke about the importance of self-love and the need to calm ourselves in the hustle of everyday life. She also really helped us understand how our relationships with one another effect the team, and I think we’ve learned to have more patience for one another ever since! Would recommend to have her in your space to help the team culture!
Naomi Trotto owner BA Salon and Collective
Naomi TrottoOwner BA Salon and Collective
It was an honor to have Danielle speak at our annual Stephen Ministry Conference that was held this past Saturday, November 4, 2023, Danielle gave us an inspiring and encouraging workshop on Trauma-Informed S.E.L.F, Mental Health As A Result of Trauma. It was educational, informative and it provided valuable tools to equip our Stephen Ministers care receivers that have mental health issues as a result of trauma.
Trish Pearce Stephen Ministry Leader
Trish PearceStephen Minister Leader
I'm the Author And Founder Of Moms Letting Go and I've known Danielle for several years. I was in a mastermind group with her where I had the opportunity to hear her speak about trauma and how she overcome church hurt. She is a passionate speaker who cares about her audience's experience and takeaway. She aims to serve others. She's one of the most committed and loyal women I know.
Michelle Weidenbenner
Michelle WeidenbennerFounder of Chief Hope Builders
Danielle is a passionate speaker who uses her own survivor story to connect and inspire others toward a deeper level of love, unity, community, and healing. Her topics are timely, with churches and communities struggling to stay united she inspires healing from broken lives, families, churches, and communities with the power of love. Loving self and others God's way. Danielle would be an ideal speaker for churches and /r individuals who have or are going through big changes. Attendees will leave with new hope and action items for moving forward.
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Niccie KlieglFounder of Fulfill Your Legacy
Danielle Bernock spoke at my live online event. Her presentation engaged the audience, sparked thoughtful questions, brought laughter along with God’s truth, and served my audience very well. I love collaborating with Danielle to serve women with painful pasts.
Kirsten Samuel
Kirsten D. Samuel
Danielle was one of my 24 speakers for my online summit I hosted in October 2021 called Thriving Thru Troubled Waters. I had her share her story, along with how survive, as well as thrive through it all. Just hearing part of her story and how she has overcome through it all definitely inspired me and the audience. Danielle is clearly a thriver! What I really appreciated about her is her huge love for people and her emphasis on the healing power of God's love!
Julie Kettles
Julie Kay Kettles
Danielle is an engaging and dynamic speaker. She is down to earth and offers a realistic perspective into the behind the scenes life as a writer. Her motivating and inspiring talks help others find the courage and resources to grow as an author.
Michael Dwyer
Michael DwyerFounder of Rochester Writers
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